Understanding These 6 Things Made Me Better Than Yesterday

Written by Michelle Ong | January 25, 2025 | Growth, Wellness

There was a time when I felt stuck and unhappy, but Max DePree’s quote hit home: ”We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are.” Transformation starts the moment you take intentional action. As 2025 begins, I have been reflecting on how far I have come over the past five years. Here’s a list of 6 key changes I made in my journey that have helped me become a better version of myself.

1. Take A Chance

Most people recognize their boundaries, shaped by past failures or the fear of trying new things. This often influences what we say no to and what we are hesitant to even try. While staying in the comfort zone feels safe, it limits open-mindedness and denies us the chance to embrace new experiences. Changing this mindset wasn’t easy, but it’s the first step toward growth and discovery. Growing up, I believed I had no musical talent since I wasn’t very good at playing the piano. However, I challenged myself to learn the ukulele. The first few attempts were tough as I tried to grasp the basics through online tutorials, but eventually, I got the hang of it, and it became a hobby I truly enjoy. So, before saying no, give it a try—you might be surprised by what you gain.

2. Black & White

Do you often worry about how others see you? I used to be overly self-conscious, caring too much about others’ opinions. But blogging taught me a surprising truth: most people aren’t paying as much attention as I thought. Realizing this helped me stop comparing myself to others, silenced my self-doubt, and made me less critical of myself. Focus less on others’ impressions. Life isn’t just about our small world.

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4. What Truly Matters Is…

“Don’t wait. The time will never be just right.” – Napoleon Hill

I once prioritized work and money over relationships, believing there’d be time later. But neglect leads to regret. Memento mori reminds me life is fleeting—waiting for ‘the right time’ risks losing what matters most. Now, I make time for weekly family moments, and the joy they bring is more than anything money can buy.

5. Health Is Wealth

I hated exercise when I was younger, and this led to obesity, poor health, and low self-esteem, fueling stress and self-loathing. But a mindset shift changed everything. By prioritizing my health and making exercise a daily habit, I transformed my life. Now, I rarely fall sick, feel more energetic, and handle stress with greater ease. Truly, health is wealth.

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6. The Hub & The Spoke

“Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out.” – Robert Collier

Working hard is important for success, but consistency is just as critical. It’s like the hub of a wheel, connecting the spokes of hard work. Consistent effort, day after day, builds momentum and resilience. Through daily exercise, I have seen life-changing improvements in my health, proving that consistency isn’t just important—it’s non-negotiable for a meaningful life. It’s a simple, yet transformative strategy for lasting success.

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Final Thoughts

“Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.” – Dalai Lama

Everyone’s list is unique—what do you think of my top six mindsets? I hope it inspires you to pause, reflect, and consider the mindset shifts that could transform your life and help you grow into a better version of yourself.

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