Achieve Your Dream Life In 7 Simple Steps
Written by Michelle Ong | December 14, 2023 | Growth, Productivity
Discover how you can navigate and carve your path towards achieving your dream life with this practical 7-step blueprint.
Have you ever reached the end of a year, looked back, and felt like time flew by without making progress towards your dreams? I found myself in that cycle—days and months passing by with little headway. My friends felt the same frustration, as another year passed without achieving those big goals we set in January.
Distractions, setbacks, and comparing my journey to others added layers of frustration and self-doubt. After some deep soul-searching, I realized my approach was flawed.
That’s why I put together a simple 7-step plan to structure my goals and path forward. These steps have been game-changers for me, and I’m excited to share them with you. Whether you’re chasing dreams or feeling lost, this guide is for you. Let’s dive in and move forward with purpose!
“The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide that you are not going to stay where you are.”
J.P. Morgan
1. Dig Deep & Be Honest
When I first tried to figure out what I wanted in life, I felt lost, like stumbling in a fog. I wanted something better but had no idea what that “better” looked like.
I started researching and came across visualization and manifestation exercises. Although they can be powerful tools, they didn’t click with me. I needed a more relatable approach, as life can be chaotic, and it’s easy to get distracted by everyday events.
Everyone has a unique path to their dreams. Advice from others can be helpful, but it’s essential to tailor your journey to your unique needs and circumstances. Through trial and error, I found that self-reflection was key. It involved asking myself the right questions, identifying my passions and strengths, and being honest about what I wanted.
I thought deeply about what I needed to be happy: the people around me, my relationships, my financial situation, how I spend my time, and what I want to contribute to society. This journey made me more aware of my fears and insecurities, which I had tried to ignore.
There was no sudden revelation; it was a long journey requiring patience and effort. If you struggle with defining your ikigai—what is truly meaningful to you—consider the Stoic philosophy of “memento mori.” This reminder of life’s brevity can help you focus on what truly matters.
You may want to read my posts on how to approach defining your ikigai and small mental shifts I made that improved my life.
In short, self-reflection was crucial in understanding my true desires and aspirations. This self-awareness helped me set meaningful goals that contribute to a fulfilling life.
2. Set Goals
Once I had a clearer vision of where I wanted to go, the next step was to write down my aspirations as clear goals. Putting dreams on paper makes them real and gets you thinking about how to achieve them. Writing them down is just the first step; defining them to make them actionable is crucial.
Start with a long wish list, then shortlist and decide which goals truly matter to you. Too many goals can lead to overwhelm and burnout, so keep it simple and focused. Take your time and don’t rush—refine your goals until you’re satisfied.
Check out my posts on goal-setting methods and principles to help you set goals that actually work.
3. Map Your Path
After defining my life goals, I moved on to the planning stage by breaking down the goals into smaller, manageable tasks and activities. Writing everything down makes the plan real and easier to visualize. I used digital tools like Google Calendar and productivity apps like Notion to keep everything organized.
During planning, consider the skills and resources you have and what you need. Plan how to acquire the missing skills and resources, such as attending courses or workshops, or identifying people who can help you.
Next, fit tasks into your daily routine. Start with a yearly plan, then break it down into monthly, weekly, and daily plans. Prioritize tasks based on their urgency and sequence. Factor in the time required for each task and slot them into your schedule without overwhelming yourself. And remember to include buffer time to prevent burnout.
Identify potential problems and obstacles, and have a risk mitigation plan. To do that, consider past experiences for insights and create a backup plan for unexpected events. Also, identify people who can support you when things go wrong.
Set milestones to track your progress and celebrate achievements to stay motivated. Check your plan regularly to ensure it’s still relevant, and be willing to adjust goals and timelines as needed. Most importantly, stay flexible and committed to follow through. Comprehensive planning prepares you mentally for the required effort and affirms your motivation and commitment.
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4. Priming
Once I had my action plan ready, I optimized my environment to support my goals. I set up my workspace with scented candles, organized my stationery, and upgraded to a larger monitor to enhance focus and motivation. To minimize distractions, I kept my phone on silent or out of sight during work hours and designated specific times for checking emails, which boosted productivity.
Syncing my physical space with my planned schedule was crucial. I built self-discipline by sticking to my routines, prioritizing my goals, and following the plan. This helped me control impulses to procrastinate and ignore distractions, fostering better habits and accountability. I used digital apps for task reminders and placed sticky notes on my monitor to stay on track.
Check out my posts on the common bad habits to look out for and strategies to overcome them.
Incorporating self-care activities into my schedule kept me motivated and maintained momentum. Setting ground rules, like limiting social media use, minimized distractions and broke bad habits. These strategies made it easier to sustain good habits and stay aligned with my goals.
Also, check out related posts on building self-discipline and enhancing productivity.
5. Be Bold & Take The Plunge
“It is not too late to do what you want to do if you stop waiting for the time to be right.”
Taking action is where many hit a roadblock. Planning is easy, but without action, it’s just a blueprint. The fear of failure often holds us back. Dreaming big is one thing, but actually doing it is another. Self-doubt creeps in, making us question our chances of success. And these thoughts can paralyze us.
Moving forward requires courage—accepting the possibility of failure and setbacks. It’s normal to feel doubts because you care about your goals. Don’t wait for the perfect moment; it rarely exists. Starting brings clarity, testing your plan in the real world to see if it holds up or needs adjustments.
I learned this the hard way. I used to obsess over perfecting the plan before acting, but action creates momentum. Once you start, energy builds, and things begin to flow.
6. Keep At It
Taking the first step is tough, but sticking to your plan when facing obstacles is even tougher. This is when a solid plan, routines, and environmental cues become crucial.
Making the process enjoyable helps. Schedule fun activities and short breaks between tasks. Digital tools keep me on track and motivated, and it’s easy to reschedule if needed. Vision boards have been a game-changer, keeping my goals front and center.
Rewarding yourself for hitting milestones is effective. For me, it means watching an episode of my favorite anime. Having role models or accountability partners can also keep you on track.
A positive attitude is essential. Long-term thinking and accepting that mistakes are part of the journey is key. Plans evolve, so expect bumps along the way. Embrace the Zen principle of ichigo ichie, cherishing each moment. Stay focused, be patient, and take it one step at a time. Progress will come. Keep pushing through tough times, and live the rest of your life like a champion.
Struggling to stay motivated? Check out my posts on staying positive and drawing inspiration from Zen principles.
7. Reflect & Adapt
The blueprint wouldn’t be complete without regular reviews and adaptations. Constantly checking my progress has been crucial. It allows me to see what worked, what didn’t, and what could be improved.
I assess what skills or resources I need, anticipate potential obstacles, and plan backups. This helps spot and address bad habits early. Seeking advice and support is vital for refining the plan, making it more realistic and effective.
Remember, struggles and setbacks are part of the journey. Instead of getting dejected, stay positive and learn from them. Use them as signals to tweak your plan or improve your skills. Embrace them as stepping stones for growth.
Check out my posts for time management hacks and top lessons from my personal journey that have improved my life.
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Start Now
Use this blueprint to pursue your dream life. Simple doesn’t mean easy. When faced with challenges, remember: perseverance is your superpower. Focus on progress, not perfection. Most importantly, believe wholeheartedly that your destination is within reach!
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