Life Is A Chaotic Mesh Of Pain And Joy
Written by Michelle Ong | October 6, 2024 | Growth, Wellness
A timeless Buddhist parable about a traveler’s unexpected journey, offering relatable and deep insights into our own lives and the challenges we face.
A Traveler’s Journey
A traveler was walking along a desolate path, with no one in sight and the wind howling around him. The gloomy weather threatened rain, and he trudged on slowly, exhausted and wondering when he would finally reach civilization.
Suddenly, he noticed something scattered on the ground. As he picked one up, he realized that it was a human bone! Before he could fully process the eerie sight, a low growl echoed in the distance. A tiger appeared and charged toward him. Acting on instinct, the traveler bolted.
He eventually reached the edge of a cliff. With no other option, he scrambled up the only tree, barely escaping the tiger’s sharp claws. Relieved, he clung to a branch, safe for the moment. The tiger below tried repeatedly to leap at him, forcing the traveler to retreat to the farthest edge of the branch.
As he congratulated himself on his quick thinking, he looked down and realized he was dangling over a cliff, with raging seas below—and three sea serpents waiting with open jaws. Panic set in. He was trapped, unable to move forward or backward, and now the branch beneath him started to creak, bending under his weight.
Just as he braced himself for the inevitable fall, something cold dripped onto him. He glanced up to see a honeycomb in the branch above. The honey dripped onto his lips, and to his surprise, it was the sweetest thing he had ever tasted. He counted them and savored all five drops. For a moment, despite his dire situation, he savored the honey and reflected that even in the worst of times, there was still something good.
The wind picked up, and the branch gave another ominous crack. The traveler braced himself, thinking the end was near. Suddenly, thunder rolled and a heavy downpour began. The rain made the cliff slick, and in a surprising twist, the tiger lost its footing, tumbled into the sea and right into the waiting mouths of the serpents. After their feast, the serpents disappeared into the depths. With the danger gone, the traveler climbed down from the tree, unharmed, and continued on his journey.
Analysis Of Symbolisms
What insights did you gather from this parable? I think that it beautifully captures the human experience and how a few simple moments could change everything. Let’s walk through the meaning behind each element in the story.
The Traveler, Bones & Tiger
This story about the traveler isn’t just one person’s journey—it’s all of ours. The traveler symbolizes us going about our daily life, experiencing both joy and hardship. The scattered bones remind us of the reality of death, that nothing lasts forever. The tiger represents the unexpected challenges we face, those obstacles that push us to act quickly and adapt.
The Tree & Branch
The tree symbolizes temporary safety, much like the places or people we turn to during tough times. But the branch the traveler clings to represents our attachments—to the past, present, and our irrational fears—that keep us stuck, unable to move forward.
The Raging Sea & Sea Serpents
The raging sea below symbolizes the karmic cycle of life: birth, death, and rebirth. The sea serpents, waiting for the traveler to fall, represent those destructive emotions like jealousy, greed, and hatred, always lurking, ready to take over if we let them.
The 5 Drops Of Honey
Amidst the chaos, the sweet honey dripping from the branch reminds us of life’s simple joys—those brief moments of happiness that make everything feel worthwhile. In Buddhism, these represent the five aggregates, the elements of our human experience, and the fleeting pleasures that bring us small but meaningful contentment.
The Rain
The rain represents life’s constant changes, reminding us that nothing stays the same. Even in tough times, it shows us there’s often a silver lining, encouraging us to stay hopeful. In moments of despair, the rain symbolizes the chance for things to get better, reminding us that problems aren’t permanent and can be overcome with time.
Pause & Reflect
Even in the midst of life’s hardships, there are small moments of joy we often overlook because we’re too caught up in worrying about challenges we are facing now, what steps to take, and the future.
Pause and reflect on where true contentment comes from. In moments of danger and uncertainty, it encourages us to embrace equanimity and gratitude, appreciating life’s small joys even during tough times. Many of our fears are temporary and that change is constant. Even in our darkest times, unexpected solutions can bring hope. We can find calm in chaos by staying present and embracing a mindset of acceptance and gratitude.
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