Break Any Bad Habit With This Powerful Method
Written by Michelle Ong | April 28, 2024 | Growth, Productivity
Break bad habits and be better than yesterday with the powerful 5 ‘R’s method. Get ready to transform and unlock your full potential.
Overcoming bad habits boosts well-being and sets the stage for success. Recognizing their impact on my life has been crucial, as they can seriously hinder both success and personal growth. I found that acknowledging the problem is the first step toward change—without that awareness, there’s no motivation to improve. It took courage to face these issues, but it was worth it. From my experience with exercising more, reducing binge-watching, and being mindful of my health, I’ve distilled the process into five simple steps—the 5 ‘R’s. Let’s walk through it together.
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Root Cause Analysis
“Change your thoughts and you change your world.”
Norman Vincent Peale
The first step in breaking a bad habit is understanding why you do it, what triggers it, and why you want to change. Often, even when we know a habit is harmful, we stick to it because we’re afraid of the effort it takes to change. That’s why knowing your reasons for wanting to break the habit is crucial. When you think about who you want to be and what truly matters to you, it helps you see the importance of change and gives you the motivation to make it happen.
When I decided to stop avoiding exercise, I started by asking myself three questions:
- Why am I avoiding exercise?
- When did I start avoiding it?
- What makes me resist doing it?
By reflecting on my habits using these questions as a guide, I became more aware of how overeating junk food and a sedentary lifestyle, filled with binge-watching, were holding me back. This awareness led me to rethink my approach to fitness.
Check out this article to see if any of the bad habits you’re guilty of made the list of common habits that hold us back from success.
1-For-1 Replacement
The most effective way to eliminate a bad habit is to replace it with a good one that serves the same need but in a healthier way. For instance, instead of skipping exercise, I made it a daily habit. This shift not only met the need the bad habit once filled but did so in a way that benefits my health.
Adding a positive habit gives you something constructive to focus on, making it less likely you’ll slip back into old patterns. It also keeps you moving toward positive change instead of just battling temptation.
Replacing a habit gradually allows you to make steady progress, with small steps reinforcing the new behavior over time. This creates a cycle of growth and improvement that leads to long-term success in breaking old habits and living healthier.
For example, if you want to quit smoking, choose a healthier behavior that serves the same purpose, like playing a musical instrument like a flute instead. If you often criticize yourself due to low confidence, try countering that negativity by adding positivity to your routine. Start your day with positive affirmations or celebrate small wins with a simple fist bump. Embracing these small actions can gradually build your self-esteem, fostering personal growth and happiness.
Create Routines
“It’s not about perfect. It’s about effort. And when you bring that effort every single day, that’s where transformation happens. That’s how change occurs.”
Jillian Michaels
Once I understood why I was avoiding exercise and recognized the need for a good habit, I felt more mentally ready to stop procrastinating and just get started. I brainstormed ways to break the habit and created a plan to steer me toward my fitness goals, breaking it down into small, manageable steps.
For example, I struggled with cardio workouts like running or jogging because I disliked feeling out of breath, sweaty, and dealing with muscle aches due to infrequent exercise. It was much easier to keep putting it off and binge-watching shows instead. Overcoming this fear of hard work was crucial for breaking free from harmful habits and growing as a person.
So, my workout plan started with short, easy routines—like 5-minute stretches after getting up, and brisk walking outdoors. I gradually ramped up the intensity, moving to a 1km jog, then longer 10km runs, and eventually adding swimming once a week, yoga twice a day, and Zumba three or four times a week. This plan helped me stay balanced and holistic, but it’s important not to overdo it when starting from scratch. The process has to be gradual and at your own pace.
When I began, I didn’t have a perfect plan, but I told myself that even 5 minutes a day would make a difference, as long as I didn’t quit. On days when I didn’t feel well enough to go outside, I would do light stretching indoors—just to keep my body moving.
The key is to make the plan flexible, adjusting as needed so it’s feasible. It all started with small, consistent efforts and the determination to keep going, no matter what. Now, I can’t imagine my life without these workout routines.
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Right Cues
Using the right cues can nudge us toward better habits. To break bad habits, I focused on making them harder to do while encouraging good ones. I identified my procrastination triggers, like turning to binge-watching shows instead of working out, and designed ways to replace these behaviors with triggers that encouraged exercise.
For example, I bought running gear I liked, like a pair of dark pink running shoes and colorful exercise outfits, and laid them out on my bed before work. When I got home, seeing them reminded me to put them on and go for a run. Afterward, I’d reward myself with a refreshing isotonic drink and occasionally a small sweet treat.
The hack is to leverage our natural tendency to avoid effort by arranging your environment to discourage bad habits. And using prompts to choose new behaviors over old ones.
When I started yoga, I bought a sturdy rubber mat, set up the room by dimming the lights, filled the space with calming lavender aromatherapy, and then sat on the mat. The poses naturally followed, and I was able to establish a routine twice a day—once after getting up and once before bed.
By strategically using these cues, you can disrupt bad habits and guide yourself toward better choices. If the initial cues don’t work, experiment and refine them to reduce any friction that might keep you from building good habits or tempt you back into old ones.
Repeat
To reinforce a good habit, you need to keep practicing and avoid the bad one, relying on repetition to solidify the new behavior. Be sure to check out this post for some practical tips on building self-discipline.
Using habit trackers can help you monitor progress and stay on track. I found it satisfying to check off habits on my daily to-do list, and tracking my progress showed me how far I’d come and where I could improve.
It’s important to understand that breaking a bad habit and replacing it with a good one takes determination and resilience, especially at the start. It’s a slow process requiring patience and self-compassion. You might procrastinate or have cravings, but managing those moments involves lowering expectations and committing to small, consistent actions. Consistency and perseverance are key.
When I noticed changes in my health, it motivated me to keep going, and I began to enjoy the process. I successfully replaced watching shows with exercise. If you slip back into old habits, see it as a learning opportunity, not a failure. Be kind to yourself, adjust as needed, and give yourself time. For those struggling with low motivation, having supportive people around can help. Sharing your goals with friends or family can keep you motivated and accountable.
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Make Your Move
By keeping the plan simple and targeting the root causes, I was able to break the habit of avoiding exercise and achieve my fitness goals. You don’t need to eliminate every bad habit—just weigh their impact against your ideal life. By understanding how habits affect you and making mindful choices, you’ll find the drive to make positive changes and become more productive.
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